Do Dogs Really Like Being Hugged? Let’s Decode the Signs
Let’s talk about something simple, yet powerful: the hug.
For many of us, hugs are second nature — they’re how we show love, connection, comfort, and reassurance. It’s human. So when we wrap our arms around our dogs, it’s only natural to believe they’ll feel the same warmth and love we do.
But here’s the truth: not all dogs like to be hugged. And that doesn’t mean they don’t love you — it simply means they express affection differently.
The Canine Perspective
Dogs are incredibly intuitive and emotional beings, but their “language of love” doesn’t always mirror ours. In the animal world, close physical restraint (like a hug) can feel threatening or confusing — especially when it comes from above or catches them off guard.
Some dogs tolerate hugs from their favorite humans. A few even enjoy the closeness. But for many, the sensation of being held tightly can cause stress — even if they trust you.
They may stiffen, turn away, lick their lips, or give you the classic “whale eye” (where you see the whites of their eyes). These are subtle signs that say, “I’m uncomfortable, but I’m trying to be polite.”
And it’s our responsibility, as their guardians and caregivers, to listen.
Love in a Language They Understand
Just because your dog may not love hugs doesn’t mean they don’t love you. They show affection in beautiful, uniquely canine ways:
A slow tail wag when you walk through the door
Pressing their body against your leg or curling beside you
Bringing you a toy (even if it’s soggy and squeaky)
Looking at you with soft, relaxed eyes
Simply choosing to be near you
These moments may seem small — but they’re profound in their sincerity. When a dog chooses closeness, it’s never by obligation. It’s trust. It’s love. It’s comfort.
Building Deeper Connection Through Respect
At Dogs On The Run, we believe that honoring an animal’s emotional needs is one of the highest forms of care. That’s why our professionals always pay close attention to each pet’s body language, boundaries, and comfort levels. Whether it's a walk, a cuddle, or just sitting quietly in their space — we follow their lead.
If your dog leans into a hug? Beautiful. If they shy away? That’s okay, too. Let’s love them in a way they can fully receive — not by human standards, but by theirs.
The most meaningful connections we form with pets aren’t about how we show love — they’re about how we listen to it.
Thank you for trusting Dogs On The Run to be part of your pet’s world. We’re honored to support not just their physical care, but their emotional well-being, too.
